Aaaaand this is how we party.
http://www.magsairsoft.com/1stick.wmv Starting from roughly pre-contact, I make the slow crawl in and then take on ~ 5000 pounds in 1 contact (You can see the flashing 'fuel' at the beginning along with the blue "RDY" indicating door is open but no contact. When contact is made the green NWS light comes on. If you disconnect, it goes to the DSC light at the bottom then back to RDY until you make contact again. It stays green at the end because it was a full tank disconnect (59xx pounds in the D-model in the training mission).