I had honor of being called the 'cheater' even though I did no such thing...sometimes my god-like mad skillz get me in trouble like that..
I had to thank you for this insight.
This happened to me twice in two separate chess servers. (Years ago)
The first one was my opponent going 'crazy' calling me stuff etc. (after I beat him). I brought out the argument in the main chatroom and got an admin involved. Few minutes later, he went quiet and the admin explained to me that he 'misunderstood' something about the log in names appearing twice.
The second one was in yahoo chess.
I was playing with this guy and this kibitzer came in. I was winning (at least 2 seconds per move *edit: was making fast moves but it was never faster than 2 seconds*) and he commented on how a certain program he assumed I was using was good at crushing human opponents.
I no longer play chess. Today, my elo rating could even be lower than average. However I've held these memories with a kind of resentment towards being accused of 'cheating'.
Anyway... an insight of turning this accusation into a compliment? Something I havn't thought about in years.